Wednesday, July 28, 2010

The Charleston Queen

Charleston was so seriously cool.  I mean, it wasn't seriously cool because the heat index was at about 116 degrees while we were there, but it was such a great trip.  We saw tons of incredible things, ate wonderful food, and really explored the city.  I took more pictures than I can even count at the moment, and I imagine it'll take me a little while to get them all edited.  In the meantime, here's a summation of the trip for you to munch on:
Top 10 Seriously Cool Things About Charleston:
10.  Outlying land/islands with tons of charm, character, and personality all their own.  Whether it's hip, cool Folly Beach or beautiful Mt. Pleasant, there really was something for everyone.  I wish I had had more time to give each of these precious places the attention they deserved.
9.  Some of the freshest, best-tasting seafood I've ever eaten.  I've been eating fresh Gulf seafood my entire life, but there was just something different about the crab, seafood, scallops, crawfish, etc. I ate in Charleston.
8.  Eye candy.  There was a surplus of incredibly attractive young men in the Charleston area, and many were out and about sans girlfriends or wedding rings, which is always a plus in my book these days.  Plus, they were the kinds of Southern cuties I love to catch a glimpse of:  khaki shorts, polo shirt, topsiders, and a great summer tan... yum.
7.  Farmers markets and groceries that served food freshly picked/harvested from local still-working plantations.  I have never had such wonderfully fresh vegetables and tasty homemade treats like you could find at these places all over Charleston.  It didn't take long to get spoiled by that, and coming home to my local grocery store was a bit of rude awakening.
6.  Tour guides who really know their stuff and make sure you have an incomparable experience.  Whether it be on a walking or carriage tour, our guides were fantastic and made us feel like they really wanted us to know, understand, and love Charleston as much as they do.
5.  Architecture that would seriously take your breath away... over and over and over again.  This place is a photographer's (professional or, ahem, amateur) dream, and I just couldn't click away fast enough.  I passed the same places over and over again and was obnoxiously whipping out my camera bowled over by the beauty everytime.
4.  History books come to life in the coolest of ways.  There's no drooling on your notebook or making paper airplanes during this history lesson, for it's just too interesting and too neat for that.  The wit, enthusiasm, and passion with which the information was presented by everyone we encountered made boredom impossible and immediately sucked us into Charleston's past, present, and future.
3.  My Kathleen Kelly moment.  In the movie You've Got Mail (one of my all-time favorites), Kathleen Kelly [Meg Ryan] overhears someone in a bookstore ask a clerk the author of a certain book.  The clerk doesn't know, but Kathleen does, so she speaks up and gives the customer the information she's looking for.  I don't know why I think this is cool; call it a book lover's geeky fantasy, I guess.  I had my very own Kathleen Kelly moment in the most amazing of bookstores in Charleston--Blue Bicycle Books.  A girl was looking for the author of a somewhat obscure book I happen to have read, and I overheard her ask the girl working in the store if she knew the author.  The clerk was looking it up on the computer, but I knew who it was.  So, I offered the answer to the other customer, and I was, for that second, totally Kathleen Kelly.  Sounds totally lame, right?  I know.  I thought it was so cool, though; I hope we can still be friends.
2.  Windows into another time and another world:  horse-drawn carriages; centuries-old graveyards; handwritten letters; tour guides in period costume (be it pirate or Revolutionary War); working plantations; and, churches unlike any seen today.  I already feel like I'm born into the wrong generation most of the time (seeing as I would be more than happy to chuck my cell phone off a bridge and all), but this place made me truly long for a time when life moved at a slower pace and the world was a little cozier.
1.  Streets where pirates, signers of the Declaration of Independence, soldiers in the Civil War, and the cast of The Notebook all walked.  Talk about diversity, huh? 
The trip was phenomenal, and I hope to get back to Charleston someday.  I see now why everyone swoons when they talk about it; there's just something about that city.  I can't describe it, but it's very, very cool. 
And now I've said cool about seventy-four times. 

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Hit the Road

Seeing as I will be picking up Day in less than 5 hours to start our great American adventure of a road trip to Charleston, I should undoubtedly be catching some zzzzzzzzz.


I, however, am burning cds (yes, cds still exist... you can find them next to VHS tapes, casette tapes, and other such archaic tools) and blabbering blogging.
I'm too excited to sleep, though.
I can't wait to get there.  I'm excited about seeing tons of these...


and even more of these...


and I am super excited about eating lots of this...


Good tunes, good place, good food, good friend... does it get any better??


I know, I know...we're not quite Thelma and Louise (seeing as, among other things, we're not driving a convertible, we're not planning to shoot anyone, and we're going to refrain from driving any sort of vehicle off a cliff), but, really, when you think of two ladies on a road trip, who else comes to mind??

Monday, July 19, 2010

Good Night, and Good Luck

Today was moving day. 
Everything was packed into boxes and hauled away in the moving truck... only to be unloaded 25 miles away in my storage unit--home to my belongings for the next year.  In all honesty, I am a mix of emotions leaving my apartment behind.  I know it wasn't much, but it was the first place in this world that was wholly mine, and I am going to miss being there.  I will miss sitting on my back porch and looking at the stars; I will miss sprawling diagonally across my bed with a good book;  I will miss my pictures on the wall; I will miss lounging on the couch storytelling and drinking wine with friends; I will miss decorating for Christmas; I will miss my flowers.  I can do all of these things at my mother's house, of course, but it won't be quite the same.  I will not miss, however, sweating to death in the kitchen and/or bathroom no matter what the time of year or the temperature; I will not miss the overly sensitive smoke alarm; I will not miss a closet the size of a postage stamp. 
Today I laughed to keep from crying, and looked forward instead of glancing back in the rearview mirror.  Just when I think I have everything figured out and compartmentalized perfectly, life, inevitably, changes again.  It's funny like that, isn't it?











In the little taupe room
There was a television
And a few spots of maroon
And a picture of...
Three friends standing under a beautiful moon
And there were teddy bears and black and white chairs
And a number of candles and a pair of sandals
And a cabinet of red and a wrought-iron bed
And a book and a brush and a note from a crush
And a quiet young lady who was whispering "hush"
Goodnight room
Goodnight room
Goodnight friends standing under the moon
Goodnight light and the spots of maroon
Goodnight bears
Goodnight chairs
Goodnight candles and goodnight sandals
Goodnight clocks and goodnight socks
Goodnight cabinet of red and goodnight bed
Goodnight book and goodnight brush
Goodnight nobody
Goodnight crush
And goodnight to the young lady whispering "hush"
Goodnight stars
Goodnight air
Goodnight noises everywhere

Friday, July 16, 2010

Down the Rabbit Hole

Pretty often it happens that I find myself absolutely lost in cyberspace, wholly unsure of how I've come to be where I am.  (This is why I cannot allow myself to join Twitter, for I just simply have enough world wide web vices as it is.  That is a whole other topic for another day, though.)  Through one social network, website, blog or another, I've wound up somewhere I have no business being God only knows where, filing away the intricate details of the lives of people I barely (if that) know.  I feel like Alice, having fallen down some unexpected hole and landed in unfamiliar territory.  I strongly desire to leave this foreign place and return to that from which I came, but, still, I'm inexplicably fascinated by my new surroundings. 
Does this happen to y'all?
Should I be admitting that I do such things?
Don't answer that.
Anyway, last night I fell down one of those rabbit holes and started reading an acquaintance's blog and, from there, read several blogs of people whom, twenty-four hours ago, I couldn't have picked out of a line-up.  I know, I know... I still don't technically know them, but we're all friends here in the blogosphere, right?  Right?  Er... is this thing on?
Ahem, anyway.
I have a point, I promise.
Most of these blogs I read were written by people who were doing internships this summer in Washington, DC.  I, too, did an internship in the capital city four (horrors!) years ago, and it was one of the most amazing experiences of my life.  So many of the events these bloggers were describing attending or participating in were events I so fondly remember attending during my time there.  It really took me back and made me wish I could do the whole thing over again.
Living in DC for the summer when you're twenty-one years old feels like you have the entire world at your finger tips, and there just aren't enough hours in the day to fit in everything you want to do and see.  Going out, working, exploring, and living in the city is such an amazing experience, you almost feel like you've received an unbelievable gift by mistake and someone will surely realize the error and send you home at any moment.  In other words, you're packing as many people, places, things, sights, sounds, and ideas as you possibly can into a summer that flies by at warp speed and is over before you really feel you've even begun.
I certainly feel like I left my mark on the city while I was there, and, let's be honest, the city left a very distinct mark on me.  I met and worked with some of the coolest people I've ever met with whom I am fortunate enough to still share friendships; I walked around without having a destination in mind, just seeing what I could see; I experienced the diverse cultures of the distinctly different neighborhoods of the city; I was able to share the beauty and history of the nation's capitol with visitors every single day; I made a number of, shall we say, bad decisions, and would make them all over again if I had the chance, for they definitely make the best stories; I saw and experienced so much of what makes America America; I took time to watch the sun set over the Tidal Basin; I marveled over and over at the fact that I was blessed enough to have such an experience; with my face pressed against the glass, I cried when my plane banked away from the Washington Monument, for I knew I would never again have such a summer.
I feel like I could cry now, actually.
Sheesh.
You see, last night I fell down a rabbit hole, wandered around disoriented for awhile, and, before long, I started to see some familiar sights.  It turns out I knew where I was all along, just taking a stroll down one of my favorite streets--Memory Lane. 
I hope those kids (when did I start referring to people a mere four years younger than me as if they are from a wholly different generation?) are having the best summer of their lives.
I bet they are, but they may not know it yet.
I didn't when I was their age, but we rarely do, do we? 










Thursday, July 8, 2010

A Taste of Excitement

Although my life over the past few weeks has been primarily consumed by my mom's surgery and recovery, there have been a number of hugely exciting developments in the lives of some of my closest friends. 
Have I ever told y'all what great friends I have?
Yes?  Several times, you say?
Oh... well... I'm going to do it again.  Tune out if you wish.
First, over Memorial Day weekend, Summer and Rob got engaged!  They are a really fun couple to be around, and I have never seen Summer so happy.  I missed the initial celebration on their engagement weekend, but I am so excited to start celebrating with several fun parties coming up over the next few months.  Big congrats, my friends!


Next, Day and Kate headed to Brazil on a mission trip.  They both had such an amazing experience, and I have enjoyed hearing about all that they did and everything they saw.  I am so proud of these two wonderful ladies for taking such a big step for the Lord, and I believe many people's lives were changed because of the impact of this trip and the people on it.


Next up, Wex got married!  I was so honored to be a bridesmaid in her wedding, and I had a great time celebrating with the happy couple and catching up with so many of my friends from college who I hadn't seen in too too long.  Wex was a gorgeous bride, and it was a much-needed weekend away for me.  A win-win for everyone, I say!  Big congrats again to Wex and Kyle!


The next bit of exciting news was the teeniest bit bittersweet, too, but only for selfish reasons.  Nick got hired at the University of Tennessee in Knoxville, and he packed up and moved from Starkville.  I am so, so proud of all that he has accomplished and how hard he has worked to finish his graduate degree.  All his hard work is paying off for sure!  I must admit, though... I'm super sad he won't be right down the road, and I'm going to miss him like crazy!  I am secretly very excited about coming to visit Knoxville, though, so this move has many upsides.

Just days later, I found out that Mary Beth and Michael are having a baby!  Mary Beth is that friend who has always wanted to be a mom and has forever dreamt of the day she will have a baby of her own.  God has blessed she and Michael with a wonderful marriage and, come February, will bless them with a baby, as well.  They are planning to move back to this area after she finishes her Master's in May, so I know MS will be so glad to welcome the three Ketchums back next spring!


Finally, a bit of exciting news of my own.  Two weeks from today, Day and I are heading to Charleston on a little road trip/vacay/last-ditch-getaway-before-the-misery-of-higher-education-kicks-in trip.  No, it's not a ring, a mission trip, a white dress, a new job, or a baby, but, believe me, that isn't curbing my enthusiasm in the least.  I am so excited to go to this gorgeous city, eat some amazing seafood, and spend some quality time with one of my best friends.  The perfect relaxing end to a rather un-relaxing summer.  I seriously cannot wait!

Sunday, July 4, 2010

L.O.V.E.

I love America.
I love the people and the places and the things that make up America. 
I am proud to be an American, and today I celebrate everything that makes America the place that it is. 
What's coming next is a list of so many of the things I love to love about America and all that it encompasses.  Some of these things may not in, fact, be exclusively American, but, for me, they make me feel American.  So, on this America's birthday, perhaps you'll allow me to take a few liberties.
So, without further ado, here are:
104 Things I Love to Love about America  
1.  Broadway
2.  Rock & roll
3.  Boardwalks
4.  Converse sneakers
5.  Bandanas
6.  Oreos
7.  Central Park
8.  Country music
9.  The Real World
10.  Brooks Brothers
11.  Sunflowers
12.  Front porch swings
13.  Cheeseburgers
14.  New York City
15.  Gingham
16.  Cutoff jeans
17.  Freedom of the press
18.  Chocolate chip cookies
19.  The Smithsonian
20.  Memphis
21.  MTV
22.  Cowboy boots
23.  Fried chicken
24.  Corn flakes
25.  Fresh produce
26.  Water parks
27.  The Gap
28.  John Steinbeck
29.  Democracy
30.  Soldiers
31.  World War II veterans
32.  Casseroles
33.  United States Postal Service
34.  The Statue of Liberty
35.  Target
36.  Amusement parks
37.  Malls
38.  Louisa Mae Alcott
39.  Yellow taxis
40.  Hershey's
41.  The Boston Pops
42.  American Film Institute
43.  Alexandria, Virginia
44.  Atlanta
45.  Ralph Lauren
46.  Corn dogs
47.  Chicken salad
48.  Sharpies
49.  Christmas traditions
50.  Opportunity
51.  Thanksgiving dinner
52.  Road trips
53.  Nashville
54.  Gas-guzzling SUVs
55.  The Today show
56.  New Orleans
57.  Ritz crackers
58.  Saturday Night Live
59.  Rainbow flip-flops
60.  Route 66
61.  Christmas Vacation
62.  Afternoon talk-shows
63.  Freedom of speech
64.  Cornbread
65.  Meat & potatoes
66.  Jimmy Fallon
67.  Sundresses
68.  Toms shoes
69.  Miller Lite
70.  Lemonade
71.  The Star Spangled Banner
72.  Blue jeans
73.  Father of the Bride
74.  Nighly News with Brian Williams
75.  National parks
76.  Nike
77.  Dr. Pepper
78.  Macaroni & cheese
79.  Judy Garland
80.  Betty White
81.  Crayola
82.  Dallas
83.  Red, white & blue
84.  Seaside, Florida
85.  Brooklyn Bridge
86.  John Mayer
87.  Walt Disney World
88.  Jerry Seinfeld
89.  Breakfast at Tiffany's
90.  Apple pie
91.  Yearbooks
92.  Frank Sinatra
93.  Backyard BBQs
94.  Chicago
95.  Destin, Florida
96.  College football
97.  The Oscars
98.  Uncle Sam
99.  Johnny Cash
100.  Motown
101.  The Gulf Coast
102.  Washington, DC
103.  Elvis
104.  Homemade ice cream
I also found this great column in the latest issue of Reader's Digest (yes, I read Reader's Digest sometimes... yuk it up) that I loved so much I wanted to share it with y'all.  America's Best Town Names:

"I was holed up in Boring, Oregon, wondering whether I should try someplace different.  So I hopped in my car and drove to Why, Arizona, to figure things out.  After a few days I found my answer in Whynot, Mississippi:  I needed a town with some life to it.  I made a beeline for Disco, Tennessee, where I danced so much, I wore out my shoes.  The next day, I headed to Loafers Glory, North Carolina, for a new pair.  Afterward I looked sharp enough to take a break, in Handsome Eddy, New York.  Eddy wasn't around, but I knew where to find him--in Loveladies, New Jersey, where it seemed that all the women were trying to get to Husband, Pennsylvania.  It was a tough town.  One gal told me my romancing needed work and sent me to Sweet Lips, Tennessee.  Heartbroken, I put the car on cruise control and drove to Lonelyville, New York, for a stiff drink.  I made a pit stop in The Bottle, Alabama, and finally hit rock bottom in Condemned Bar, California.  Not surprisingly, I woke up the next morning in Cranky Corner, Louisiana.  I knew that if I continued like this, I'd be headed straight to Hell, Michigan.  Pulling myself together, I grabbed breakfast in Oatmeal, Texas, lunch in Sandwich, Massachusetts, and dessert in Pie Town, New Mexico.  I should've stopped eating after Greasy, Oklahoma, because I was feeling pretty sick by the time I left Lick Skillet, Tennessee.  In Brilliant, Ohio, it finally dawned on me--I had to cease my wandering ways.  I parked in Do Stop, Kentucky, took out the map, and chose my new home.  I didn't need Wealthy, Texas, or Fame, West Virginia.  I found everything I needed in Happyland, Oklahoma."--Andy Simmons, Reader's Digest Humor Editor

With all that and so much more, how could you not fall in love with America every day, over and over again??


Happy Birthday to the U.S. of A... hope you've all had a wonderful holiday!!